Reflections on Grief & Child Loss

Now Open – Groundbreaking Exhibit on Grief

Understanding History (and Ourselves) Through Empathy

When Abraham and Mary Lincoln’s son, Willie, died at 11 years old in February 1862, they once again experienced what is called “the greatest tragedy.” Willie was their second son to die from an illness in childhood. The Lincolns were eager for solace and a place to grieve this loss when they moved to the Cottage at the Soldiers’ Home. When describing their move, Mary Lincoln wrote, “When we are in sorrow, quiet is very necessary to us.”

The trauma of child loss shaped both Lincolns. It seeded new fears they carried until they died. It deepened the limits of their emotional and mental endurance. It changed the character and course of their lives. And, the stigma of grief transcends time and place as families continue to struggle under the societal pressures of mourning the death of children in modern society.

Reflections on Grief and Child Loss is a first of its kind exhibit that bridges the Lincolns’ ​experience of the death of their children with modern families whose children have died inexplicably or from illness, disease, physical and gun violence and identify themes and ideas to bring light to the experience of child loss across time and experience. The exhibit will remain open for at least two years.


SUPPORT THE EXHIBIT

Purchase an Engraved Leaf

Donors have the opportunity to purchase engraved leafs to commemorate their loved ones; engraved leafs start at the Contributor level and are available in a limited quantity. All donors will have a vellum leaf placed in the exhibit and will have their loved ones honored on our memoriam page. The proceeds from all donations will be utilized to support future programming related to grief and loss that will run throughout the duration of the exhibit.

For sponsorship opportunities or to make a gift in memory of a loved one, please contact Development Assistant, Brittany Turner, at bturner@lincolncottage.org or visit the exhibit page below